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Please Vote "NO" on Prop 8

I believe in love and marriage. Since I was six years old, I have participated in several weddings in different capacities. I have played the role of ring-bearer, altar boy, best man, prayer leader, lector, wedding singer/choir, witness, event planner, consultant to the designer, music organizer, photographer, and (had I never left the seminary) most likely would have also played officiating priest on more than one occasion. I always felt it was an honor to be part of one of the happiest days of several couples' lives, regardless if it was out of love (for friends & family) or was being paid for it. I used to wonder if I would ever experience that same kind of joy of being able to marry the one that I love.
Alas, last May 15th, a landmark event in history, the California Supreme Court overturned a state law that allowed only opposite-sex couples to marry. Bill and I were excited but cautious, and decided not to immediately take advantage of this, since it still does not cover federal benefits.
Then Proposition 8, an initiative measure to Eliminate Right of Same-Sex Couples to Marry, was added by an out of town special interest group to the California General Election Ballot. I worried that if we got married and "Yes on Proposition 8" was passed after the elections, then we would only end up heart-broken.

I still am not sure if we will get married or not, but I am doing this not for me, but for those who have already gotten married and are/may be planning to do so in the future.
For those in my life who use their faith as their only moral compass, I implore you to think about the fundamental rights of those "happy" people (known or unbeknownst to you) who in some way, shape, or form played a role in making your wedding day one of the most memorable days of your life (like your brother, cousin, friend, hairdresser, make-up artist, wedding gown designer, stripper, event planner, choreographer, caterer, waiter, videographer, driver, honeymoon travel agent, best man, and yes, even perhaps your priest.)
Fellow Californians, regardless of how you feel about marriage, it is not fair to treat people differently under the law, so on November 4th, Election Day, aside from voting for the right person to lead our nation, please consider voting "No on Proposition 8", vote for love, equality, and not for discrimination.
If you disagree with me, speak now or forever hold your peace, so I can, therefore, save on wedding invitations, if ever. :-)

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